And where exactly did the romance go now that Prince Charming barely pays attention to you anymore?As it turns out, men are more unpredictable than their reputation would have you believe.And that’s our best case analysis of the situation. To be blunt, his story really sounds like a well worn story that a married guy uses to get laid outside his marriage. Visualize yourself in that future wife role — down the road with this gent — and then tell me how this same model for behavior works for you from that viewpoint.It plays on a prospective sexual companion’s sympathies and eliminates any sense of competition. It also portrays the guy as a hapless victim — rather than a calculating perpetrator. Then we need to ask you why you are attracted to a guy who acts like he is a victim? So how do you imagine he will be transformed into an upright, responsible, solid and reliable guy down the road, when it’s your turn to play the “wife” role in his drama? Talk to the countless women who wanted to believe in that fairy tale, too. How do you feel when the next “other woman” enters, stage left?If you’ve ever wanted a peek inside the minds of real men, this is your chance.
Fein married and divorced, and has recently remarried. The authors admitted they were not professionals in an appearance on NBC's The Today Show.
Hello, I am a single mother of 2 children and am deeply in love with a married man for the past 2 years.
He says he has never loved anyone the way he loves me, and knows in his heart that one day we will be together.
Do you know the improbability of acheiving a solid relationship with a guy who acts like a victim? What exactly would bring about such a remarkable change in him? Now let’s look at your potential role in such an affair. In starting new relationships, we advise you to choose guys who are totally free and clear.
This is no walk in the park, no matter how you cut it. This means not being married — unhappily or otherwise.