HIS MATURITY LEVEL What I’m referring to here is “emotional” maturity.
You can find out about this rather quickly when you meet a guy simply by observing how he reacts to things and how he treats the people around him.
Like prey in the wild, we've learned to adapt to our surroundings and protect ourselves against the attack of assh*les, douchebags and playboys.
We've learned to read the signs, mark the places to avoid and pick up on the traps that are carefully deployed and once so naively walked upon.
So you’ve read his profile, and he seems like a great catch…but how can you be sure?
I’m sure you’ve heard that in order to find love, you should throw out your “checklist” – you know, that laundry list of items in the back of your mind that describe your ideal man.
Good men, like great sex and comfortable heels, can be almost impossible to find.
You feel comfortable and safe in this relationship because of how he’s made you feel. If you have particularly picky loved ones, it might seem like no guy will ever be good enough for you as far as they’re concerned. It’s not that you need a man to feel beautiful about yourself.The future, your psycho boss, sex, periods — you name it, he is happy to listen to you and have a conversation about pretty much anything that is on your mind.He doesn’t want you to ever hold back or keep anything in.Maybe you’ve also heard the opposite: That you SHOULD have a detailed breakdown of what’s important to you so that you can attract such a man into your life…and keep out the guys who’ll eventually let you down.What I’m going to offer you here is something a little different – a few key items that will help you determine if the guy sitting across from you on a date is a quality man who is capable of a commitment.