She had been one of my closest friends ever since we were 14 and ran around her garden in nighties, pretending we were starring in Pride and Prejudice.But we spent so much time together that we started to dress alike and dye our hair the same shade of red.These are my really close friends and I have a feeling that something is going to happen that it's going to get to the point that I might have to choose sides. It is not your business and the more you make it your business, the more likely it is to go bad for you.Would you date a guy who is not good looking at all but he is super sweet and caring an lives 400 miles away and has 2 kids? He told me I should have called him the next day, but I waited a week, so he got his closure. Ok, so here's the basics of this situation: My current girlfriend is 17, and I am 18.It came down to be too much to put into the article I was writing, so we decided that I should throw it all into an installment of “Decoding Male Behavior.” To start, I wanted to write this article to dispel some of the misconceptions I’ve heard in regards to men and breakups.
To dispel the misconceptions, let’s take a look at some of the universal truths about guys and breakups – some of which may surprise you since they certainly are hidden from the surface. Simple enough to say, but I know plenty of women will talk about how some guy came off like an insensitive jackass after the relationship fell apart because of his actions post-breakup.She says shows like Sex and the City arepopular mainly because "it's a fantasy for women that they'll have this four-way best friendship in their older years." Yet, despite the ideals women may believe in and hope for concerning friendship, breaking up with your BFF, to whom you have no familial or legal ties (like you would with siblings or a husband), is rather easy.Recently the subject of guys and breakups came up and Sabrina and I went back and forth about what guys generally go through when they breakup.Because having a best friend is one of the most important things in life - and losing that bond is far worse than any other relationship break up. A few months after my BFF and I stopped talking, I broke up with my first serious boyfriend.Google "break-up" and you'll see, among mentions of the 2006 romcom starring Jennifer Aniston and Vince Vaughn, a slew of websites and articles devoted to getting over an ex-lover.